Anxious Attachment in Romantic Relationships
People with an anxious attachment style often feel insecure and their relationships consume a large part of their emotional energy…
Triangulation in Polyamorous Relationships
Whether your relationship is monogamous, polyamorous, or any other configuration, conflict is inevitable. And that’s ok!
Why Therapist-Client Fit Matters
“There are many factors that impact how helpful therapy will be to you. It may have to do with the specific issue bringing you, the particular techniques…”
Why We Talk About Parents in Therapy
“Periodically, I’ll be mid-session with a client. We’ll be talking about something seemingly unrelated to their parents - a job, a romantic partner, finances…”
10 Signs of Emotional Abuse
“Within healthy and unhealthy relationships, people may become angry. They may make major mistakes. They may yell and say things they later regret. They may even suddenly end a relationship despite the other not being ready to let go…”
Borderline Personality Disorder and Trauma
“One way of thinking of our personalities is that we tend to have certain patterns of how we think, feel, and behave. For example, if you value your independence, then you are likely to…”
Why We Fight with the Ones We Love
“Our need for emotional security often impacts our behaviors within relationships. It's a perspective that is also useful in thinking about why we may get caught up…”
Setting Boundaries with the People You Love
“Many people find that certain patterns appear when the holidays arrive and family time becomes a more regular part of their lives. Maybe every year a relative makes a comment…”